Dream On: Bringing up Babies
Katha Pollitt, 11 September 2003
“Sometimes the young unmarried woman is told she is having too much fun and will pay later; sometimes she is told she is too miserable, and no wonder – while men postpone commitment, her eggs are already scrambling. The young mother may be advised to give up work till her children are older or she may be urged to fight for government policies and workplace changes that would enable her more easily to combine both roles. But basically the books all given the same depressing advice: compromise, settle, tone yourself down, and do it sooner rather than later.”