Guilt
Andrew O’Hagan: A Memoir, 5 November 2009
“... filled in the means-tested application form. We would have to make a case every term and have our name written down in ink at the end of the typed list, as if our parents were completely absent from all decisions and all procedures. You felt guilty at both ends of the argument: guilty for not having the form and guilty for resenting your parents for not ... ”